Today...nothing new just want to say hello to all my global audience thanks for your time and keeping me busy writing..I like to watch drama after my G+ and blog...if you have something to share show it or post it...enjoy

Helping Alona with her cigarette addiction, I can say to myself I did all I can but nothing works. But in the other hand I'am thankful that she's not really as bad as anyone I know. Though I didn't see any improvement at this time, Alona will continually smoke cigarette anytime she wants. The best thing I can share right now is that people have their own rights and so be it. Because I cannot change people I can only help them with limits, Alona is in her 60's I don't want to argue with her but to help and encourage with healthy activities that she would like to do just to skip from smoking cigarette for awhile.

My father smoke cigar and alcoholic right now he is under the care of my sister in-law, my mother, sisters and nieces in the Philippines. My father suffered from stroke and due to delayed intervention his half body was paralyze, one of my niece finished with her nursing studies she's now RN in the Philippines, I'm so thankful that she can monitor her grandpa when needed. I know my father is lucky however all of this is not fun how I wish my father will speak again. Well it is getting late again I will talk to you tomorrow again

Good night    

Talking about my favorite drama, Korean actor Lee Min Ho, once again I watch Boys Over Flowers amazing drama. City Hunter even better I'm watching it again..for now I'm waiting for the "One and Only" I don't know when its gonna be available...and more dramas to come... try watching Korean movies as well you will love it.

Enjoy the drama ...

I came to this decision to let go of Alona, it's not that I want to push her away because of her cigarette addiction but Alona needed a higher level of care. Alona's unpredictable behavior last night is unacceptable I have to do something to help her and for the safety of everybody. Our polite conversation went smoothly yesterday night she said yes and then do it anyway. Alona and I had a wonderful day yesterday afternoon but then she blow it again with anger in the evening. It was bad that I need to call a police last night...got enough with her combative behavior she breaks hangers, threw things on the floor, cursing and tries to hit me. My nighttime becomes nightmare, her mother was notified and she is bringing more cigarette for Alona, however this coming month will be different, after thirty days Alona will start to pack her belongings and move on to her next journey of being slave to this thing called "cigarettes." I'll hope and wish for a better place for Alona I love to help her very much but she's not helping...however I will continue with my "polite conversation" with you bear with me and I'll tell you more....talk to you tomorrow again.

To be continued.  

I have my pedi-spa done today + french manicure...went to my walking exercise am bliss. Drop by at bucks (Starbucks coffee shop)yeeehh here I come. Beautiful Saturday + sunshine..really makes my day, perfect. Alona went out with her sister, my friend Shaani is here...party time.






4:30 in the afternoon I heard Alona's voice, she's talking to Shaani saying "I want to smoke now." Shaani came to me asking if Alona can smoke her cigarette I said she can have it around five o'clock however Alona came to me saying she's not hungry and will not eat dinner because she already eat pizza with her sister. Alona went in her room, Shaani is preparing dinner. I heard Alona's radio way too loud I have to see Alona and ask her if she can lower the volume if possible. Alona invited me in her room she's showing me her dragon book (The Discovery of Dragons--New Research Revealed--). Showing me her favorite dragon Soong Chen Yi's Dragon (also known as the Great Golden Worm). I'm glad Alona is cooperating this time, no cuss or anger presented today, Alona went outside to smoke her cigarette, this day is perfect for everybody...thank goodness.




To be continued I will talk to you tomorrow again.

T'was a beautiful morning cold (45degrees) and sunny..my red lion amaryllis is twisted and ruined however the flower intact but it's not in good shape. As always I have to forgive Alona, her mother came today and said sorry for what had happened to my amaryllis. I feel much better when I hear Alona's mother say "sorry" however my morning greetings from Alona is not good.

Alona is in her 60's having difficulty with her cigarette addiction. Alona smoked two cigarettes this morning but it is not enough to satisfy her nicotine craving. Alona came to me and asked if she can smoke one more cigarette, I said yes. After half an hour Alona is asking for more cigarette. Madness and anger arise when I said "no Alona you have to wait for an hour before you can smoke again." Alona acted so badly she grab the TV remote control and newspaper and threw it on the floor. Alona went in her room slammed the door, after that I heard more crashing sound. I quickly checked what's going on and I found Alona's lamp shade torn and smashed on the floor. Alona is cursing, I waited for an hour before I started "my polite conversation with Alona." I reminded Alona about her cigarette rules, she remember it very well, she understand what it is and said sorry for her actions this morning. I encourage Alona to play puppet hand therapy, it works at least 80% it helps to distract Alona from her cigarettes world. After that she went to Starbucks coffee shop. Finally "coffee time" wish me luck at least my G+ is helping..having fun so addictive.

Alona is back she's just back two steps to the front door saying "can I have my cigarette now."

To be continued...talk to you tomorrow again....good night

      

                                            

I wake up with good spirit even the sunshine smile at me this morning. However this day was not good because once again my patience was tested. Glad to have G+.






My beautiful potted red lion amaryllis was damaged..am am not going to forgive Alona she knocked it and the whole thing fell on the floor, because she's mad. Alona is mad again because she can not wait for 8:00 o'clock (evening) to smoke her cigarette. Alona and I had a polite conversation regarding improving her anger management and increasing knowledge and insight to better cope with anger and cigarette addiction before dinner, it went smoothly however she blow it up again with anger. Words can't stop Alona from becoming a monster to this thing called "cigarette" it crept in her brain every single minute. Alona can not miss a single minute asking for her cigarette. Look my beautiful amaryllis I paid $17.99USD for this flower. I have to talk to her mother concerning this issue.
Alona is anxious right now sitting in the couch looking at me saying "can I have my cigarette now."




To be continued...be with you tomorrow again...good night.   

Hello my name is Teresita I received a word from my niece..hello there. Before anything else am really happy to be here G+ I call it so "addictive." I came to this point trying to scribble a short part of what I call my "addict to cigarettes" Jeez how on earth I started this, am getting hot and sweaty..jaja. I smoke socially "only" not addicted to it. Am friendly too, I love my work every single day is an argument with Alona..she's a sweet lady but her life is cigarettes. I couldn't figure out why she's full of anger and madness because she wants to smoke whenever she wants. I've known Alona for almost a year. Alona is a slave of this thing called "cigarette" even freaked out when she's out of cigarettes. I never heard Alona talk about food. She never asked what's for breakfast? Whenever she's awake the first word I hear "can I have my cigarette."


Getting sleepy already...to be continued...good night.