Caring for people who are helpless physically and mentally that's what I do...living with them is not really that easy if you're not that kind of person to deal with it. My grandma I didn't even had a chance to see her when she pass away. If you are providing care to one of your family who needs it, so be it. It will take 24 hours to do that and if you're not ready don't do it. Take the first step before doing it, take good care of yourself before caring for others. Good luck share what's new..talk to you again.

Take care